Relationship Issues: Short out your issues with loved one’s with the help of astrology.

Now days we often feel very disturbed in our relationship. We work hard to have a healthy and happy relationship with our partner, friend or siblings. However our all efforts go waste and things become so complicated between us. These all occur due to difference in nature, behaviour & personality. You are not alone in this world who face such a hard time in relationships.  With the help of astrology you can make your relationship joyful and unforgettable without face so much trouble and conflicts. 

We all are aware of Zodiac signs and it’s compatibility with other one. Today I will tell you how to find your most compatible sign and also give you tips how to make you relationship fruitful and filled with joy. Let’s go through one by one zodiac sign. 

Aries:

Aries is fiery by nature the most impatient sign of Zodiac Belt. They get short tempered very soon and retaliate quickly randomly. Arians are spontaneous and adventures in nature. They enjoy learning new things and getting opportunities. They easily get bore without movement in this life and hate stagnancy. They love and live for change and excitement and gets bored easily too. If things go into their routine or daily tasks then they probably gets bored by that. These guys want the quick response of anything and want to get noticed by others. They need to practice maximum patience and be calm by nature to be live happy love life. They should also need to learn how to balance between things or situations.

Taurus:

Taurus is second in sequence and earthy sign by nature and taureans are extremely stubborn and set in their own ways always. They are not flexible and want things to happen according to their terms & conditions. They quit very easily if they don’t find stability and romance in any relationship. They need to learn flexibility and try to be open minded in love relations. They act very slow take time to decide right and wrong for them and get stuck over anything for a longer period of time. It also seems that they invest on love relations for future purposes. Their stubbornness can be blessings as well as challenge in few occasions.

Gemini:

As Gemini is number 3^rd sign in zodiac circle and is dual by nature, Geminians are belonging to dual nature. They always swing between yes and no they are also not very firm on their stands. Due to this, they need somebody who can cope up with them day to day tasks. They get bored very frequently, that’s the thing which you should keep in mind while choosing your partner. Geminians mostly seems like a robotic by nature, and as a result, they are seen to deal their emotions mechanically. Others become judgemental very soon for them due to their activities and nature. Sometimes because of this, your partner or other people around them feel that they as a cold and distant. They should apply serious efforts to maintain their emotional intelligence healthy, if you wish to have a happy relationship.

Cancer:

Natives of Cancer sign are more sensitive and emotional person. They care for their partner and loved ones. Safety and nurturing the relationship is utmost priority in relationship for Cancerians. They are very perfect to express their feelings before your partner. Likewise everything goes right from their end. Even after, when the time comes, they may be wrong for that someone, the reason for this to being their overly sensitive nature; which can’t be handled by everyone and he or she feels so much suffocation and imprisonments in relations and feel difficulty to enjoy relationship. Relationship is all about learning process and you need to deliver a lot of love before you loved one or partner. You should give freedom and liberty to others so that they can also enjoy.   

Leo:

Leo born natives are very passionate in relationship and having intense personality. They always want to dominate their partner and want things happen according to them. They present themselves as a leader and winners in every situation; this is their quality. They know how to manage things according to their comfort. Such guys want very exciting and passionate partner in love matters and have very much expectations from her or him. They get short tempered and feel very uneasy when others don’t fulfil their expectations. They should keep in mind that no one can be intense every day.  They will have to understand this very clearly and don’t expect same excitement and passion from their partner every day.

Virgo:

Virgo born natives are always like to be on the ground of reality and deals things practically. You like to be a perfectionist and want same from his partner. It is a good quality, but sometimes, things may go difficult and become worst when things don’t go as per their expectation. It pushes such guys into deep anxiety and worry. Sometimes, they overanalyze things and find mistake in themselves too, this behaviour may not go well in your relationship matters as they analyze thoroughly every aspects of their partner and also they highlight the flaws of their partner a lot, which can be the area of concern for them. Such guys should be little bit flexible and chill in every aspects of life. No one is perfect in this world, we should accept others with their weakness and try to help her or him to get the rid of his weakness and turn it into his or him strength.  

Libra:

Libra born natives always pay a lot of attention on relationship than any others. Librans are well known for balancing things. They always see on both aspects of the coin, hence they face some difficulty in making right decisions in their relationship. They always hang between right or wrong; shall I do it or not. This is their main problem. Such guys’ thinks a lot before making any decision. You always see your replica in your partner and want all your qualities within her or him. Sometimes, Librans start throwing everything in the air, when they don’t find new but this is not very to take relationships for a long way. They know how to balance out things in an appropriate manner and apply it into practical to avoid issues in relationship.

Scorpio:

Most mysterious sign in the zodiac belt is Scorpio. Others fail most of the time to judge them. Such guys don’t trust others very easily but once they start doing trust they have blind faith on others and this indulge them in to problems several times. Such guys shouldn’t open up their secrets with others. They love somebody with full dedication without any condition and deserve for it. They should be more open in relationship and start trusting others. If they fail to learn this it’s quite possible they may lose their soul mates. So they should learn it as early as possible.

Sagittarius:

Sagittarians like freedom and be open. Because it is a fiery sign such guys becomes selfish in some occasions. They are very adventurous by nature and have several varieties in relationships. Though freedom is important for them, so they should learn to identify their partner’s likes and dislikes. Love is the name of scarification not demand. It doesn’t have any condition. They should try to balance between freedom and responsibilities. True love is always unconditional. They should avoid thinking about themselves in every aspect of life.

Capricorn:

Capricornians always keep very positive and stable approach towards their relationship with others and try to put this approach with their partners also. But you also have a little bit dominating approach; but somehow it turns into a bitter and unforgettable experience. They should try to understand love can’t be long lasting in dictatorship attitude. They should also have to learn feelings and emotions of their loved one’s. They should be broad minded and give some space to their partner in order to feel them comfortable. They should give them equal treatment in relationship and allow them to enjoy it. Their partners also deserve it.

Aquarius:

Aquarians are made for partnership and friendship. They can do anything to prove themselves a good friend and a good lover. They believe in team up and cooperation with their partner instead of thinking like any collaboration in business and what benefits and outcomes can be. They don’t mind any special relationship over a casual one, but they also don’t feel like stick to one, reason being they want to pull away themselves without any explanation from any relationship because sometimes they feel very frustrated and take some wrong decisions. They need to learn how to pay attention to their loved one’s and also need to take care of their needs as well to sustain or to live happy and healthy relationship.

Pisces:

Being the watery sign of the zodiac Pisces born natives like to be daydreamers. Pisceans need to be connected to root and need to live in a real world. Day dreaming is looks good in fantasy not in practical life. If they want to fix their relationship issues, they need to come back to reality rather than thinking about something which does not exist. Pisceans are needed to stay grounded and avoid doing any stupid activity which may cause trouble in relationships. They should always ready to face reality of life.

Connection between Mahadasha & Planets Elements(Tatva)

There are 5 types of dashas in Vedic astrology Mahadasha, Anatrdasha, Pratyantardasha, Sukshmadasha & Prandasha. Mahadasha is for very long span of time, Antardasha is for short span, time span of Pratyantardasha is less then Antardasha, Sukshmadasha remains for some weeks or months & Prandasha is remains for some days or even more than one planet’s Prandasha is passed in a day. So for pin point prediction we will have to do carefully analysis of Sukshmadasha and Prandasha.

We can classify above 5 dashas into 5 elements. As we know there are 5 elements e.i. fire, earth, air, water & ether or Akash. We assign Mahadasha, Antardasha, Pratyantardasha, Sukshmadasha & Prandasha to each element respectively. We also know about elements of each planets Sun & Mars are fiery element, Moon & Venus are watery elements, Mercury is earthy element, Saturn, Rahu & Ketu are airy element and at last Jupiter is ether(Akash) element.

Now we should also have a look friendship between elements.

• Fire element has friendship with air & akash elements, and it doesn’t support water & earth elements (because both are enemies of fire element).  
• Earth element has friendship with air, water & akash elements, and it doesn’t support fire element.    
• Air element has friendship with fire, earth & akash elements, and it doesn’t support water (because both are enemies of air element).  
• Water element has friendship with earth & akash elements, and it doesn’t support fire & air elements (because water is enemy of fire & air elements).  
• Akash element has friendship with all elements because it has all four elements inside it.

Now we will combine Mahadasha & planet’s elements to each other’s. If running Mahadasha is of fiery element it would be good and it will give quick results but if Mahadasha is of earth element, native will get it’s results gradually but steady. Reason behind it is because earth take time to get warm, after getting heat it’s warmness remains for long time. Air & akash elements planets give good results in it’s Mahadasha because they are friend of fire element. But Water element will not give good results during it’s Mahadasha. We should apply this principal in all dashas(Mahadasha, Antardasha, Pratyantardasha, Sukshmadasha & Prandasha). If we get friendly planets and elements, then we will get good results. We can do pin point prediction of any event of life using this Technic.

Remedies in Vedic Astrology

Selection of Remedies:
Life and Problems go hand in hand. Human is always in search of remedies to come out of the problems of day to day life. Though it is difficult to change one's destiny but it is not impossible. Astrological remedies are the solutions provided to overcome complicated situation. One can get relief by chanting mantra, meditation, and by astrological remedies.

Are remedies effective?
This question is often asked. Do we certainly get relief by remedies? In my opinion one must have faith in remedies? Everything that exists has in it a part of Supreme Consciousness. If you believe in God, this is sure that you will feel the effects of remedies and you get relief. The use of remedies is based on faith. Remedy has got its place in all religions.

Can remedies change one's destiny?
No doubt, destiny takes precedence over any other thing in life. It is very difficult to change what is destined in one's life but not impossible. Destiny and God are synonymous. So the God who is the creator of destiny or incarnation of God or some God like figure like saint or Sai Baba of Shirdi who is blessed by the God, of course they can change destiny. Other ways like -Bhakti Yoga (the path of devotion), Hath Yoga (a kind of austerity in which body is subjected to severe pain), Mantra Yoga, Kundilini Yoga and Shri Vidya Upasana (upasana marg which is an uninterrupted meditation upon a deity or a form or a sound like 'Om') For this one has to approach a 'Guru' with love, devotion and total submission, one can change destiny.

How do remedies affect our life?
It is like a doctor, who is approached by a patient to cure the disease. The doctor diagnoses the problem and recommends some medicine to cure. If the disease is incurable, the patient is left on the mercy of God. In the same manner, if one has the fear of death or there are yogas of accident in kundli, by performing Yagya and chanting of Maha Mrityunjaya mantra, this unexpected death or accident could be overcome. Baglamukhi Yagya, helps one to get relief of enemies and win the court cases. If appropriate remedial measures are undertaken in due time the said evil effects will be nullified and the person will be relieved of all sufferings. Astrological remedies and medicine both are ineffective in case, if in the kundli there is promise of short life and defeat by enemies. In this condition, only God can save the person, as Savitri saved her husband Satyavan from the jaws of death. It is rightly said -

औषधि मणि मन्त्रं, ग्रह नक्षत्रतारिका।
भाग्य काले भवेत् सिद्धि, अभाग्यम् निष्फलं भवेत्‌‌‍।।  
"This means, medicine, mantra and gemstone reduce the malefic effects of inauspicious planets and nakshatras and enhance one’s luck. But all these remedial measures are effective only when the time is favorable. Otherwise, they won't."

How to select a remedy?
This is also an important question. In Indian astrology main remedies include mantra, tantra , yantra, gemstones, rudraksha, yagya, rosary etc. Out of these, if remedy is performed with full faith and devotion, one can overcome the complicated situation. The first and easiest remedy is to worship your Isht Dev or Devi (God & Goddess) or to worship those deities who can reduce the malefic impact of negative planets in the kundli.
For example-

• To appease the malefic effects of Sun, worship Goddess Matangi or Sun God.
• To cast of the malefic effects of Moon, one should worship Goddess Bhuvneshwari or Lord Shiva.
• For Mars, worship Goddess Baglamukhi, Lord Hanuman or lord Karthikeya etc.
• To cast of the malefic effects of Rahu, worship Goddess Chinnmasta, Durga or Saraswati.
• For Jupiter, Goddess Tara Devi is worshipped.
• For Mercury, Tripur Bhairavi or lord Vishnu should be worshipped.
• For Ketu - Goddess Dhoomavati.
• For Venus Goddess Kamala Devi or Maha Laxmi should be worshiped.

These deities should be worshipped by chanting mantras, stotra and Japam. According to Maharishi Parashar each planet has its own deity, and by chanting mantras and stotras of the respective deity one can come over various problems in life. Remedies are selected on the nature of rashi. For example

• For fiery signs - Hawan, yagya and fasts enhance the positive traits of the native and destroy negative influences.
• For earthy signs - wearing gemstone, yantra or metal is auspicious.
• For airy signs- chanting of mantras, japam, pooja and katha are auspicious.
• For watery sign- donation, immersion and herbal bath is auspicious.
• If yogakarak planet is strong in the kundali, wearing gemstone and worshipping deity of that planet, will be auspicious.
• If Marak (killing) planet is strong in kundli, in that case donation, immersion, chanting of mantras and view of deity of that planet is auspicious.

Let us, now have a brief discussion of various astrological remedies -

• Gemstone: Gemstones provide us divine powers, auspicious rays and energies. Various gemstones reflect different energies which have the potential to bring changes in our life. A gemstone of yogakari planet strengthens that planet and brings auspiciousness in life.
• Rudraksha: Rudraksha has magnetic properties which increases positive energies and destroys negative energies. For various planets a different rudraksha is worn. For example-

1. One mukhi Rudraksha - Sun
2. Two Mukhi Rudraksha- Moon
3. Three Mukhi Rudraksha- Mars
4. Four Mukhi Rudraksha -Mercury
5. Five Mukhi Rudraksha - Jupiter
6. Six Mukhi Rudraksha - Venus
7. Seven Mukhi Rudraksha- Saturn
8. Eight Mukhi Rudraksha -Rahu
9. Nine Mukhi Rudraksha- Ketu

• Yantra: Yantras have powers and they protect us like shield. Mantra – Chanting of mantras creates vibration in our body. It also enhances our intellectual capabilities and personality.
• Parad: By worshiping parad (Mercury) Shivlinga one could get the instant blessings by the lord. 
• Crystal: Crystal is the powerful source of energy and light.
• Color Therapy: Color Therapy brings balance in energy chakras of our body and enhances them. 
• Yagya: In Arthav veda, Yagya is being considered a central point of this universe. It says- “Ayam yagyo Vishavasya Nabhih”

Which means Yagya (Hawan and Homam) is most auspicious and removes doshas.
Other remedies like Pranayam, donation, Arghya, fasting, herbal bath, immersion of items of the affected planets etc are also being suggested on the basis of kundli.